Wednesday, July 24, 2013

The last bit of Texas

We had such a great time in Texas. My posts hardly do any justice to the life-giving week we spent with our friends. Words like "marvelous", "wonderful" and "fun" fall short. Our trip to Texas was like a warm meal at a full table after a long day of working. It fed us in so many ways. 

Even in the literal ways of feeding us, it was incredible! Justin and Jenn provided fresh, healthy and delicious meals for us. Justin has become quite the artisan cook since we last saw him. Eating anything he made was seriously a worship experience, but his vegetables were especially amazing. Matt ate vegetables. He hates vegetables! I've been sneaking them in his meals like I'm packing secret messages to an inmate. But he got second helpings of Justin's kale salad and chomped on Brussels sprout chips like they were Fritos. I think that says it all about Justin's cooking. (Let that be a lesson to the kids out there: anyone can enjoy vegetables if you have the right recipe. And lots of lemon zest.) 
 
 A very special part of our trip was getting to see the Partins. Chels and I have mastered the art of long-distance friendship, but it was so wonderful to get to see her in person and spend some quality time with her. And by "quality time", I mean shopping, eating and going out dancing. I hadn't seen her or her husband David in a little over a year, so their familiar faces were a great delight after spending a couple months traveling around to unknown places. They drove up from Del Rio and treated us to a night in Austin with them. Lucky for us, our husbands get along great and we had a lot of fun playing downtown together.


Our first stop after breakfast was the Austin farmer's market. After trying out some samples and holding someone else's puppies, we sought out to find somewhere air conditioned to be. We ended up at Frank's Hot Dogs and ate snacks exploding in calories (like chocolate covered bacon), drank unconventional iced coffee and read The Onion-on paper! A real excitement to loyal fans of the usually web-based satirical news.






As much as I loved exploring downtown Austin, I have to admit that the highlight for me was going out later that night. I'm usually entirely content cozying up to my introverted husband on the weekends, but it's nice to be unleashed once in a while, break my bedtime and dance it out. Especially with two really great friends who know you well and you can completely be yourself around.


I loved seeing my sweet Texas friends one last time before they head out to North Carolina! Chelsea took way better pictures of our weekend together, which you can see here. We love you guys! Thanks for such a fun weekend together! And let's all agree to skip the chili waffle fries next time.

Our last few days with the Gerhardts were so fun. We overlapped with the Longs visit and got to spend a couple days with them as well. It was such a treat to watch Matt in his element with the people that know him best. There is seriously nothing like being with people that love & know the person you love & know so well. It feels like we have been transitioning to and from communities our whole marriage and our constantly feeling out of place in California, so I cherish any moment I see Matt relax and be himself. I loved sitting in a living room with people that have known Matt longer than I have, listening to their inside jokes and predicting his behavior. Not having to bridge any gaps or explain ourselves. It's such a sweet thing to have friends become family, isn't it? 




Friday, July 19, 2013

Texas and the Great American Fourth of July

I wouldn't really consider myself super patriotic, but I really love celebrating any and every holiday, so as a result of that, I love to celebrate the Fourth of July. It's the only holiday we really get after St. Patrick's Day to hold us over until Christmas, you know? 

We planned to get to Texas in time to celebrate Independence Day with the Gerhardts and I am so glad we did. It was great. I've had some pretty great Fourth's and many-a-pool-parties, but Texas does it better. And bigger, of course. 

photo credit: Jenn Gerhardt

It started off, just like it should, with tiny voices yelping "wake up, it's the fourth of July, you guys!" three inches away from your face. We put on as much red, white and blue as we could (hard to do with my primarily gray wardrobe) and loaded up our arms with camping chairs and water bottles and walked up the street to the Round Rock Parade. 


It was definitely the most exciting and patriotic small-town parade I've ever seen (and when you've spent around five summers in the small town of Lebanon, Oregon you definitely have something to compare it to). We joked that half the town was in the parade and the other half of the town was watching (at least I thought we were joking).

As Matt and I settled into our seats, London approached us with her hands on her hips. "Alright, here's the deal. The people on the floats are going to throw out candy. Now, you might not get the kind of candy you want. And adults don't usually get candy, but you can definitely try. Oh, and don't throw rocks at the floats." Not her first rodeo, my friends. 

 photo credit: Jenn Gerhardt



They also handed out root beer and plastic American flags because, what else are you suppose to hold during a parade?



After the parade, in true small-town fashion, we walked up the street to Justin & Jenn's friend's house for a party. We ate all the appropriate Fourth of July foods and sat around the yard with plates of cherry pie on our laps watching the kids play on the slip 'n slide, wondering whose idea it was to hand out squirt guns. It was perfect. 




Justin and Matt collaborated in the kitchen and we had an amazing feast of brisket tacos and corn & blueberry salad. It was good. Jenn's guacamole practically stole the show; we were all politely fighting over the last few bites of it!

After dinner we packed up dessert and some blankets and headed out to see some fireworks. We drove up on some traffic so we changed plans and headed over to Justin and Jenn's future church land and parked the truck in a huge, beautiful, overgrown corn field. With a wide open sky above us, we could see two different firework shows going on. We listened to Tom Petty and ate fluffy, still-warm gluten free biscuits drizzled with freshly made blueberry sauce and piled high with homemade whip cream. 


 

Wonderful people, great food, and the adorable renditions of a Katy Perry song from a certain 4 year old all contributed to what is easily the highlight of our summer. And easily the best gluten free dessert.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

An ode to London & Eve.

After wrapping up our time in the south, we packed up our rental car and drove 12 hours to visit some friends near Austin, Texas. We were greeted by the sweet faces of London & Eve (and Leo the rat) and enjoyed nearly ten days soaking up their stories, laughter and overall joy.


The last time we saw the Gerhardt family was nearly two years ago, on the day of our wedding, at the end of the aisle after London & Eve had trailed flower petals. Justin & Jenn are two of Matt's best friends that he considers family and I got to marry into the wonderful relationship he has with them. Visiting them was the perfect ending to a long two months in the south. 







We love the city of Austin and we love the Gerhardts, so our visits with them are always great. Our time with them in the past has always been pretty short, crammed full of site seeing and late nights trying to catch up with them and get a glimpse of the city. This trip was really special. We just got to jump in on their lives for the week and be a part of their family. This included, but was not limited to: singing songs in the car, giving piggy back rides, turning them into human pizzas, spotting mermaids in the pool, pouring cups of apple juice and shamelessly taking pictures of just about everything they did. (Can you blame me? Look at them!)

Not only do Justin & Jenn do a spectacular job of parenting them, they are also just great kids, full of wit and personality way beyond their years.


This is my favorite picture I took our entire trip there. It's perfectly candid and captures exactly how wonderful it is to be smothered by their love and energy. (Not a bad shot of Leo either!)

It was especially wonderful to watch Matt with the girls. I've always known he's great with kids (better than I am), but his love and adoration for London & Eve turns me into a giant puddle of when-can-we-have-kids-lets-start-now. (Sorry Mom, not yet.)




We love you London and Eve! Don't grow up or change at all until we come back to Texas.

Saturday, July 13, 2013

The Inn at Serenbe



About eight months ago, my friend Bean handed off a book to me called The Dirty Life. "You'll love this. But be careful, you'll never eat the same again!" The book is written by a journalist from New York who visits a farm and interviews a farmer for an article she's doing. You follow her story as she gives up her rent-controlled apartment in the city, quits her job to marry the farmer she interviewed and eventually starts an organic working farm in a small community in a rural area. It's amazing. I thought about her story for weeks, stocked our fridge with expensive vegetables, gutted out and replanted our garden, and tried to talk Matt into buying me some chickens. I wrote down the title for my boss at work and urged her, as a lover of gardening and good eats, to read it immediately. She finished it by the end of the week. 

A month later, she excitedly greeted me from behind the counter as I walked into work. "I stayed at a farm!" She had just returned from traveling to Georgia for a trade show the week before and made a pit stop just outside of Atlanta to stay at The Inn at Serenbe. 

Serenbe is a small community tucked away just outside of Atlanta. It focuses on land preservation, agriculture, and overall, community. In Serenbe, there's a certified organic working farm, an inn, a small neighborhood with a few clusters of locally owned and operated shops and restaurants. Oh, and it's adorable.

When we headed out to the south, I had told Matt about it and he mentioned that Atlanta is just a couple hours away from where we'd be. He surprised me with reservations at the inn for the weekend of my birthday, making the perfect mid-trip getaway for us.


They offer a few lodging options but we opted for a room in the Main House, a restored 1905 farmhouse. It was closest to the farm (animals) and housed six guest rooms, a community kitchenette, a library, a wrap around porch and the inn's main restaurant, The Farm House. Mint gardens bordered the house, sweetening the humid air and with the windows open, you could hear the frogs singing from the lake in the back. I felt like I stepped inside something enchanted.


Our room was bright and inviting, sunshine glowing through the white curtains, lighting up the white walls. A four-post bed was layered with several thin, feather comforters and stacked with pillows, inviting us to curl up and take a nap. The bathroom was covered in subway tile and had original pewter hardware and deep sinks with stacks of white towels in wire baskets next to them. It looked like something out of a remodeling catalogue. Fresh made, soft oatmeal cookies sat waiting for us by the bed under a glass case.We just melted.





The morning we arrived, we drove down the little, dirt road just in time to hop on a truck and join in on feeding the animals. Bouncing around in our seats on the dirt roads, we carefully listened to Austin's instructions. "Keep your hands flat. Don't feed the pigs. Try not to step on any chickens." We followed Austin around the farm, carrying buckets of feed. Matt stood cautiously to the side while I acquainted myself with every animal I could reach, feeding bunnies, goats, horses, chickens and sheep.





Just as we were walking back from the stables, thunder cracked over our heads. We ran back to the grass lot our car was parked in and closed the doors just in time as the rain poured. Southern storms have rain like they put in the movies. Heavy sheets of fat drops that come down quickly, like they're in a hurry. We sat in our car and watched the storm roll over us, the thunder shaking the car.

Everyone we bumped into on the farm had recommended we head over to The Hil for lunch. It's just down the hill from the farm and apparently a favorite in the Serenbe community. All of their produce and most of their ingredients come fresh from the farm, so you can imagine the menu. The Hil was another old, restored building. I watched the storm out of wide, ceiling-high windows, smearing farm-fresh butter smashed with herbs onto hunks of rustic bread.


In the center of the dining room there was a long wooden table, cluttered with cake stands. I spotted a few extra-frosted carrot cakes, a rectangle lemon cake and in the center, an enormous chocolate cake. Of course, I couldn't pass that up and (not so) casually mentioned it was my birthday as soon as I found our server.


Please note that my plate is a dinner-sized plate. I'm not admitting to finishing or not finishing that slice...
After our incredible lunch, the rain had let up so we walked around the beautiful streets of Serenbe. Houses were sprinkled in between the shops and sometimes it was hard to tell which was which.





We stopped into one of the stores, Twig, and I noticed a pretty large display of the ever-coveted Volcano candle sold primarily in Anthropologie. The store owner must have noticed my facial expression as she said "Oh, the couple who started that candle line live in the Serenbe community." Oh, of course they do. 


We headed back to the Main House for an early dinner at the Farm House, their popular restaurant raved about throughout Georgia. Attached to the Main House, it has the same farmhouse structure and aged hardwood floors. Long linen curtains framed the windows, simple white-washed tables adorned with a single fresh flower from the garden (I caught someone picking them as they set up for lunch). An old brick fireplace, filled with dripping candles and mismatched logs. 


I could rave and rave and rave about the food there, but I'll never do it justice. You just need to go there. Go there, eat the hot, cheddar, buttermilk biscuits, order the fried green tomatoes, drink the fresh peach sangria (with peaches from the orchard), and savor every bite of their famous fried chicken. I don't know if I ever want to eat chicken again, because it will never taste as good as theirs. Flavor that made it past the skin and all the way through every bite. I actually grabbed our server's hand when she asked if we liked our meal.

I suddenly appreciated the idea of our room being four doors down from the restaurant. We collapsed on our bed, the sheer curtains pulled around the bed fluttered from the ceiling fan. I opened a few gifts and cards from my wonderful, intentional family and then kicked off my cowboy boots with serious intentions of falling asleep. "Want to go on a walk?" Matt's voice was quiet, sleepy, but I could hear the eagerness. We poured cups of tea (there was a fresh pot next to warm cookies we came back to) and walked outside barefoot into the night. If it's possible, the farm was more alive and more breath-taking. I gasped as I took in the frogs singing, the night bugs pulsing in unison and the fireflies flickering above the lake. I kept wondering out loud if we were on a movie set. We walked around the farm, no dialogue needed, until we found ourselves back on the steps of the Main House porch. We spent the next thirty minutes, stretched out on our bed looking up farm properties in the south, laughing and day dreaming about owning property in the country. 

After the most incredible night of sleep (I woke up hugging three king size pillows), I tied back my hair and tip toed back outside, hoping to catch another magical moment. It was already hot, the air so wet you couldn't breathe deeply. I spotted dark storm clouds off in the distance and sneaked back into our room. "Matt! Let's eat breakfast and watch the storm!" (I'm allowed to break our morning rules when we're staying in magical, enchanted inns.) 

We walked back down the hallway to the Farm House and ate the most generous complimentary breakfast ever. We picked a table by the window and watched the storm over heaps of bright yellow egg casserole, house made sausage and fresh squeezed juice. I single-handedly ate the basket of hot fresh biscuits, smothering them in strawberry lavender jam. With a few hours left before check out (the perks of getting up early, people), we chose a few books from the library and set up camp on the wrap-around porch. 


The first twenty minutes out there, we sat motionless, books on our laps, heads forward as we watched the rain. It was hard to pull ourselves away to pack up our room and leave.


We picked up a couple jars of preserves as we checked out, and circled the farm one more time. It was hard to drive away from the place, but we couldn't stop daydreaming and brainstorming about what it would look like to trade in the sounds of the city and live in the country. For Matt, it would be returning to the environment he grew up in, for me, it would be the most delightful culture shock. I wonder if it would be too isolating for an extrovert from the city, or if I could even bear to coexist with the spiders and snakes. 

My mind goes back to The Dirty Life and I think that maybe I'm like her, designed and meant for the country, yet finding myself in the city. (But then I count up how many times a week I go to Target and laugh.)